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Dating & Community Psychology Other

Global problem: Dating apps fail for complex lives (illness, relocation, unfulfilled youth). A platform is needed for matching based on life path compatibility.

Moderation foreword:

Loneliness is a widespread global issue. Research indicates that levels of social isolation have increased, and many consider this a critical trend requiring attention. We understand this is a monumental challenge for a startup. But if you succeed, you will change millions of lives. If you build an effective solution, we are ready to introduce you to several investors. Simply contact the founder of ProblemHunt.

1. Describe the problem:

I am a UX/UI designer who relocated to a new region and live with a chronic illness. My teenage daughter is homeschooled. We share a profound sense of loneliness that standard dating apps cannot address.

I paid for subscriptions on Tinder and VK Dating — zero conversion. Their algorithms are blind to what matters most: life path compatibility. They ignore:

  • Unlived experiences ("I want to reclaim the youth consumed by work and childcare").
  • Life constraints and context (chronic illness, parenthood, remote work).
  • The true goal of connection (not a fleeting romance, but community, creative partnership, or mutual support in similar struggles).

The market lacks a platform where matching is based on the depth and alignment of life stories and unmet needs, not just photos and demographics.

2. How often does the problem occur?

This is a constant, daily reality. For my daughter, it's social starvation. For me, it's a years-long search that repeatedly fails on first meetings due to fundamental life mismatches. This is a systemic issue for anyone navigating relocation, health challenges, mid-life crises, or non-traditional lifestyles.

3. What attempts have you made to solve the problem?

  • Paid for existing solutions: Subscriptions to major dating apps. Result: zero. Their models are too shallow.
  • Searched in niche communities (online groups for illness, relocation). Outcome: good for advice, but no deep personal connections.
  • Tried offline avenues. Result: geographically and socially impractical.

Conclusion: The current market only facilitates superficial "fast" connections, completely overlooking the need for meaningful, context-aware compatibility.

4. How much are you willing to pay for the solution?

As a user who has already wasted money on ineffective apps, I am open to a flexible model:

  • An ad-supported model, where I'd gladly engage if the service genuinely finds my "tribe".
  • A reasonable subscription fee (comparable to dating apps), but only for a service that delivers true, deep matching.

The value for me is in the result, not the price.

5. Problem author:

Name: Anna Koval
Country: Russia
Contacts: Telegram, Email

Key proposal for developers:

I am actively seeking a technical co-founder or team. I offer my expertise as a Product Designer and the primary "user in pain".

  • Deep User Insight: I am the core target audience, living this problem daily.
  • Product & UX/UI Design: I will lead design, creating an interface that resonates with people like us and building a strong portfolio case.
  • Hypothesis Testing & Feedback: I will be the first tester, gather feedback from relevant communities, and help validate every step.

I invest not money, but my expertise, time, and unparalleled motivation to solve my own problem. Let's build a service where the algorithm understands life stories, not just faces.

Note: This problem was written in Russian, but we have translated it into English. Therefore, it is preferable if you communicate with the problem's author in his language. Thank you.
The author of this problem has indicated that they are ready to provide feedback to the developers and want to receive 1% equity in the startup that will build a ready-made solution. You can contact the author directly via the contacts above.